Cedar Ocean
Have my undivided attention, warmth and loving touch all to yourself
Cedar offers tantric massage that is slow, gentle and luxurious. Allowing you to drop into deep, blissful relaxation and expand your capacity to receive pleasure. She creates a warm, nourishing and safe space for you to receive loving, nourishing touch.
Cedar is a trained tantric massage therapist, she is also trained in tantric sex surrogacy (surrogate partner therapy). She is a trained relationship and consciousness coach and facilitator. She has been working in the realm of relationships and community for over 20 years. Cedar believes that through intimate and attuned relating we can change the world. And that it is important to put the way we relate to ourselves at the centre of that. She loves tailoring sessions to her clients and enjoys sharing several sessions with clients, allowing for a deeper experience as trust and connection build.
A massage with Cedar starts with a gentle, grounding meditation, helping you to drop into your body. Next, we embark on eye gazing, entering that dance of both seeing and being seen. After this, she gently leads you through a mutual touch exercise that allows both of us to see each other without your eyes. Now that you have experienced some co-regulation and safety Cedar invites you to receive a gentle and blissfully relaxing full body massage. This flows into the stillness of chakra balancing, which gently invites you to feel into any blocks in the flow of your sexual energy and deepen your self-awareness. Most often, this then leads into a yoni or lingam massage. Working with massage, arousal and breath, she supports you to learn the art of spreading pleasure throughout your body and bringing your sexual energy towards yourself. This part of the massage is a beautiful, accepting and non-goal-oriented dance. Cedar works with individuals and couples.
Benefits of a session:
- Receiving undivided and loving attention and touch
- Feeling blissfully and deeply relaxed
- Becoming your own primary lover
- Being seen, accepted and loved, including parts of yourself where you may feel shame.
- Playfully expanding your ability to feel sensations and creating new pathways of arousal
- Learning new ways to be intimate in your relationships, including your relationship with yourself
About Cedar Ocean
Cedar is a lovable, imperfect human being who loves to generously give touch and attention. Using pleasure as medicine, Cedar creates a loving, warm and safe environment where you can relax, feel pleasure and experience intimacy. She is passionate about healing through pleasure.
Cedar has a slow, gentle and playful approach that allows for both transformation and fun. She has a unique mix of cheeky mischief with intuitive wisdom that allows clients to soften and open into their own unique experience of joy, pleasure and embodied healing.
Through being in a long-term partnership, Cedar is constantly learning about the messiness and complexity of relationships. On a good day, Cedar is a masterful relator; she knows the cost of working through trauma and how lonely the journey can be sometimes. She supports her clients with the relational skills to create intimate relationships, both with themselves and others.
It is really important to Cedar that each client feels safe and secure. She takes time getting to know her clients before offering them a session, by having a discovery Zoom call or walking together. Going slowly and being attuned to her client’s nervous system allows Cedar to offer her clients the safe and secure holding needed to experience relaxation and pleasure.
As a queer practitioner, her approach is inclusive, sex-positive and trauma-aware. Cedar welcomes all expressions of gender and sexuality. She works gently and slowly, tending to each client with great attentive care and undivided attention. With her highly attuned ‘spider-senses’ she supports clients to grow in self-awareness and attunement to themselves and others.
